8 Super Signs that Someone is Your Soulmate - Rumi Wisdom

A soulmate is someone who you feel a deep connection with. In his poem “This Is Love,” Rumi writes "The minute I heard my first love story, I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was. Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along."1

Soulmates can appear in many forms and are not limited to romantic partnerships. They can be someone with whom you share a deep or natural affinity, similarity, love, romance, platonic relationships, comfort, intimacy, sexuality, sexual activity, spirituality, compatibility and trust.

Here are 8 super signs that someone is your soulmate:

• Your soulmate makes you feel safe when you are around them.

• They make you feel joyful and not just happy.

• You understand each other as no one else does.

• You compliment each other.

• There is this undeniable connection.

• Your goals and dreams are in line with each other’s.

• Your beliefs and values mesh together.

• You trust them.

What is a soulmate?

A soulmate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are; we can be loved for who we are and not for who we’re pretending to be. Each unveils the best part of the other. No matter what else goes wrong around us, with that one person we’re safe in our own paradise. Our soulmate is someone who shares our deepest longings, our sense of direction. When we’re two balloons, and together our direction is up, chances are we’ve found the right person. Our soulmate is the one who makes life come to life.

"I have been a seeker and I still am,

but I stopped asking the books and the stars.

I started listening to the teaching of my Soul."

~Rumi

I believe that the concept of a soul mate transcends time and culture. It is a deep, spiritual connection between two people that goes beyond physical attraction and intellectual compatibility.

The concept of a soul mate can be explained by the psychological theory of attachment. When two people have a secure attachment style, they feel comfortable, safe, and connected with each other. They share their thoughts, feelings, and experiences without fear of rejection or judgment.

However, the idea of a soul mate goes beyond attachment theory. It suggests that two people can have an unexplainable connection that transcends time and space. I have tried to understand this connection through various means - some people believe in fate or destiny, while others think it's a result of past life experiences.

But as Rumi said, "Lovers don't finally meet somewhere. They're in each other all along." This suggests that a soul mate is not someone we find, but someone we recognize. It is a recognition of our own soul in another, a meeting of two souls that were always meant to be together.

"Love is not an emotion, it’s your very existence."

In Rumi's writing, a soulmate is not necessarily a romantic partner, but rather a person who helps us realize our potential and connects with us on a deep and meaningful level.

The idea of a soulmate suggests that the universe brings two people together for a divine purpose, and that their connection goes far beyond the physical or material realm. It is a connection of the soul, a bond that transcends time, space and worldly concerns.

I am fascinated by the idea that such a connection exists and that we are all searching for a soulmate, whether we realize it or not. Perhaps this is what drives us to seek out new experiences, push beyond our limitations, and strive for excellence in all that we do.

Ultimately, the concept of a soulmate reminds us that we are not alone in the world, that we are all connected, and that we share a common destiny. Whether we find our soulmate or not, the journey is what counts, and the lessons we learn along the way are what shape us into the people we are meant to be.

In essence, a soulmate is not simply a person we are meant to be with romantically, but rather a person who helps us become the best version of ourselves, and with whom we share an unbreakable bond.

In conclusion, a soul mate is not just a romantic partner or a best friend, but someone with whom we share a deep, spiritual connection. It is a bond that goes beyond time, culture, and reason.